Family portrait sessions – they’re meant to capture precious memories and freeze those fleeting moments in time. But let’s be honest, reality can sometimes feel more like herding cats than creating cherished art. The key to a successful and (dare we say?) enjoyable portrait session lies in preparation, especially when kids are involved. A little planning can go a long way in transforming a potential meltdown into a memorable experience. So, if you’re dreading the prospect of wrangling your little ones for the perfect shot, read on for some tried and tested tips on how to prepare your kids for a stress-free family portrait session.

1. Talk About It: The Power of Communication

Don’t spring the portrait session on your kids the day before or even the morning of. Start the conversation at least a week in advance. Talk about what’s going to happen in age-appropriate terms. For younger children, you might use simple language like, “We’re going to have some pictures taken of our family!” Show them examples of family portraits, maybe even some from past shoots. Explain that it’s going to be fun and that we’ll be playing and smiling.

For older kids, you can involve them more in the planning. Ask them what kind of location they’d like, or if they have any ideas for poses. Letting them feel part of the process gives them a sense of ownership and makes them more likely to cooperate. Explaining what the photographer will do, like using a camera and taking a lot of portraits, can help dispel any fears or misunderstandings.

2. Location, Location, Location: Choose Wisely

The location of your portrait session can significantly impact your kids’ moods. If they’re going to be uncomfortable, bored, or overwhelmed, it’ll show. Consider their personalities and preferences when making your choice.

• For Younger Children: A familiar, outdoor space like a park or playground is usually a winner. It gives them space to move around and burn off some energy between poses.
• For Older Children: A location with a bit of character can be more engaging, like a local town square, a beach, or a nature trail.
• Consider the Time of Day: Schedule the shoot around your kids’ nap times and mealtimes. A hungry or sleepy child is not going to be a happy one in front of the camera. The ‘golden hour’ (early morning or late afternoon) offers beautiful light, and it might be a calmer time for your family too.

3. Wardrobe Wonders: Plan Your Outfits in Advance

Outfit planning is crucial for a smooth portrait session. Here’s how to tackle it:

• Choose Comfortable Clothing: While you might envision perfectly coordinated outfits, comfort should be a top priority. Avoid anything itchy, too tight, or restrictive. Kids need to be able to move and play without feeling restricted.
• Consider the Location and Theme: Coordinate colors or choose a color palette that suits the setting. Don’t over-match; instead, think of complementary tones that work together without being identical.
• Involve Your Kids: Let them have a say in what they wear (within reason). If they feel good in their clothes, they’ll be more comfortable and confident in front of the camera.
• Lay Out the Outfits Ahead of Time: This avoids frantic searching and last-minute wardrobe changes, leading to less stress on the day of the shoot.
• Consult with Lissette: If you’re feeling overwhelmed or unsure about what to wear, consider consulting with Lissette. She offers personalized guidance to help you choose outfits for the whole family, paying special attention to cuts and styles that will enhance your look and ensure everyone feels their best.

4. Pack a “Survival Kit”: Be Prepared

Being prepared with a “survival kit” is essential. Think of it as your portrait session emergency pack:

• Snacks and Drinks: Pack plenty of easy-to-eat snacks that won’t stain clothes and plenty of water or juice. A hungry child is not a cooperative child!
• Favorite Toys or Comfort Items: A favorite stuffed animal or a small toy can help calm a nervous child and make them feel more comfortable.
• Wipes and Tissues: These are always necessary, especially with kids.
• First Aid Kit: A small first aid kit with band-aids and antiseptic wipes can come in handy for minor bumps or scrapes.
• Bribe Material (Optional): A small treat or sticker can sometimes work wonders in getting a smile or two. But use this sparingly as you don’t want to make it a requirement for participation.

5. The Photographer: Choosing the Right Match

The photographer you choose can make or break your family portrait session experience.

• Look for Experience with Children: Choose a photographer who is known for being patient, understanding, and skilled at working with kids. Check out their portfolio for examples of their work with families.
• Have a Pre-Consultation: Talk to the photographer beforehand about your children’s ages and personalities. Share any concerns or specific requests you have. This allows the photographer to plan accordingly and tailor the session to your family’s needs.
• Consider Their Style: Do you prefer candid shots or posed portraits? Choose a photographer whose style aligns with your vision. Lissette offers both options, creating beautifully posed portraits while also capturing genuine, candid moments in between, ensuring you get a diverse collection of images that tell your family’s story.

6. The Day Of: Keep it Light and Fun

On the day of the portrait session, remember to stay relaxed and positive. Your attitude will influence your children’s behavior.

• Don’t Over-Rehearse Poses: While it’s good to have some ideas, don’t try to force your children into stiff poses. Let them be themselves and let the photographer capture their natural expressions.
• Be Flexible: Things might not go exactly according to plan. Be prepared to adapt and be open to spontaneity.
• Encourage and Praise: Offer plenty of encouragement and praise throughout the shoot. Tell your children how great they’re doing and how much fun you’re having.
• Take Breaks: Don’t push your children to the point of exhaustion. Breaks for snacks, drinks, or a quick playtime can help keep them happy and engaged.
• Let the Photographer Lead: Trust the photographer’s expertise. They’ve likely dealt with similar situations before and know how to get the best out of your kids.

7. After the portrait session: Celebrate the Success

After the portrait session, take the time to celebrate the success of the day. Let your kids know how much you enjoyed spending time with them and how excited you are to see the portraits. Maybe have a special treat or a family movie night to commemorate the occasion.

The Takeaway

Preparing your kids for a family portrait session doesn’t have to be stressful. By planning ahead, communicating effectively, and choosing the right photographer, you can create a fun and memorable experience for everyone involved. Remember, the goal is to capture genuine moments of joy and connection – and these moments are often found when everyone is relaxed and comfortable. So, take a deep breath, embrace the chaos, and get ready to make some beautiful memories!